<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0"
	xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"
	xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"
	xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"
	xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/"
		>
<channel>
	<title>Comments on: We Live Where Our Focus Is</title>
	<atom:link href="http://paintedgenerations.com/blog/2010/03/we-live-where-our-focus-is/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" />
	<link>http://paintedgenerations.com/blog/2010/03/we-live-where-our-focus-is/</link>
	<description>Exploring possibilities, asking questions, discovering life day by day.</description>
	<lastBuildDate>Sat, 27 Aug 2011 05:36:44 +0000</lastBuildDate>
	<sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod>
	<sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency>
	<generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.1</generator>
	<item>
		<title>By: Barbara Hartsook</title>
		<link>http://paintedgenerations.com/blog/2010/03/we-live-where-our-focus-is/comment-page-1/#comment-10367</link>
		<dc:creator>Barbara Hartsook</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Mar 2010 16:56:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://paintedgenerations.com/blog/?p=1382#comment-10367</guid>
		<description>Hi Bean. Yes! Be present in the present... the best approach of all. The only time, really, we can control, is the moment we&#039;re in. That&#039;s where the choices lie... Thanks!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Bean. Yes! Be present in the present&#8230; the best approach of all. The only time, really, we can control, is the moment we&#8217;re in. That&#8217;s where the choices lie&#8230; Thanks!</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Barbara Hartsook</title>
		<link>http://paintedgenerations.com/blog/2010/03/we-live-where-our-focus-is/comment-page-1/#comment-10366</link>
		<dc:creator>Barbara Hartsook</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Mar 2010 16:55:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://paintedgenerations.com/blog/?p=1382#comment-10366</guid>
		<description>Hi Justyna.

You have a beautiful name! I like the sound of it...

Thanks so much for coming by and sharing your thoughts. Glass half-full seems more promising, doesn&#039;t it?

I&#039;ll be over shortly to visit your blog. I like the title of the current post... :) Always looking for creative thinking techniques.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Justyna.</p>
<p>You have a beautiful name! I like the sound of it&#8230;</p>
<p>Thanks so much for coming by and sharing your thoughts. Glass half-full seems more promising, doesn&#8217;t it?</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll be over shortly to visit your blog. I like the title of the current post&#8230; <img src='http://paintedgenerations.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  Always looking for creative thinking techniques.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Barbara Hartsook</title>
		<link>http://paintedgenerations.com/blog/2010/03/we-live-where-our-focus-is/comment-page-1/#comment-10365</link>
		<dc:creator>Barbara Hartsook</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Mar 2010 16:50:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://paintedgenerations.com/blog/?p=1382#comment-10365</guid>
		<description>Hi Valerie. You make me smile. I love the metaphor. And actually, I agree with you completely. Focus is very important, but I don&#039;t believe it is static. I don&#039;t subscribe to any level of &#039;status quo.&#039; I don&#039;t think it exists.

Mental focus is vital to me... in the early mornings, reading, thinking, writing -- always with a cup of fresh, hot coffee. :)

Later in the day it may be painting. I lose myself in both these activities, and time is not a factor while I&#039;m focused.

Opening my mind to possibilities is something I practice, on a conscious level, as I write, or paint. Or drive. Or shower. Or have a gentle conversation in the coffee shop. Or listen to others&#039; conversations. (Yes, I do that, sometimes invited, sometimes eavesdropping. Shameless, I know.)

But staying open to and aware of what&#039;s around you, and the inherent possibilities, is essential -- in my opinion.

Thanks so much for this turn in the conversation. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Valerie. You make me smile. I love the metaphor. And actually, I agree with you completely. Focus is very important, but I don&#8217;t believe it is static. I don&#8217;t subscribe to any level of &#8216;status quo.&#8217; I don&#8217;t think it exists.</p>
<p>Mental focus is vital to me&#8230; in the early mornings, reading, thinking, writing &#8212; always with a cup of fresh, hot coffee. <img src='http://paintedgenerations.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Later in the day it may be painting. I lose myself in both these activities, and time is not a factor while I&#8217;m focused.</p>
<p>Opening my mind to possibilities is something I practice, on a conscious level, as I write, or paint. Or drive. Or shower. Or have a gentle conversation in the coffee shop. Or listen to others&#8217; conversations. (Yes, I do that, sometimes invited, sometimes eavesdropping. Shameless, I know.)</p>
<p>But staying open to and aware of what&#8217;s around you, and the inherent possibilities, is essential &#8212; in my opinion.</p>
<p>Thanks so much for this turn in the conversation. <img src='http://paintedgenerations.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Barbara Hartsook</title>
		<link>http://paintedgenerations.com/blog/2010/03/we-live-where-our-focus-is/comment-page-1/#comment-10363</link>
		<dc:creator>Barbara Hartsook</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Mar 2010 16:39:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://paintedgenerations.com/blog/?p=1382#comment-10363</guid>
		<description>Hi Lisa! Thanks for your comments. I too think our happiness is tied up with actively pursuing something meaningful to us. You&#039;re blessed to have found that for now. I say for now, because as we continue to grow, we continue to refine -- or change -- our pursuits. I&#039;m open to that as well. Focus is so important, but I don&#039;t think it&#039;s static.

Thanks too, for the link to the Starbucks thingie. I had contacted them directly too -- but you gave me more information. Bless you...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Lisa! Thanks for your comments. I too think our happiness is tied up with actively pursuing something meaningful to us. You&#8217;re blessed to have found that for now. I say for now, because as we continue to grow, we continue to refine &#8212; or change &#8212; our pursuits. I&#8217;m open to that as well. Focus is so important, but I don&#8217;t think it&#8217;s static.</p>
<p>Thanks too, for the link to the Starbucks thingie. I had contacted them directly too &#8212; but you gave me more information. Bless you&#8230;</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: BeanFair</title>
		<link>http://paintedgenerations.com/blog/2010/03/we-live-where-our-focus-is/comment-page-1/#comment-10362</link>
		<dc:creator>BeanFair</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Mar 2010 22:43:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://paintedgenerations.com/blog/?p=1382#comment-10362</guid>
		<description>For me it is about focusing in the moment and not getting stuck in the &quot;what was&quot; or obsessing in the &quot;what will be&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For me it is about focusing in the moment and not getting stuck in the &#8220;what was&#8221; or obsessing in the &#8220;what will be&#8221;</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Baker</title>
		<link>http://paintedgenerations.com/blog/2010/03/we-live-where-our-focus-is/comment-page-1/#comment-10361</link>
		<dc:creator>Baker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Mar 2010 20:52:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://paintedgenerations.com/blog/?p=1382#comment-10361</guid>
		<description>Yeah, our thoughts are pretty powerful. Imagine if all of us just like put our intentions in the right place the amazing things we can accomplish together in this world in a positve manner that uplifts society!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah, our thoughts are pretty powerful. Imagine if all of us just like put our intentions in the right place the amazing things we can accomplish together in this world in a positve manner that uplifts society!</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Justyna Bizdra</title>
		<link>http://paintedgenerations.com/blog/2010/03/we-live-where-our-focus-is/comment-page-1/#comment-10359</link>
		<dc:creator>Justyna Bizdra</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Mar 2010 17:50:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://paintedgenerations.com/blog/?p=1382#comment-10359</guid>
		<description>Hi Barbara,

nice post about law of attraction and importance of focus. It works in my life, the great thing is that since I have realized about the power of the right focus, I am more happy and have more time for the things I love, because I concentrate on them and see &quot;glass half-full instead of half-empty&quot; :)

Justyna
.-= Justyna Bizdra´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/CreativeInternetMarketing/~3/rAnZBkN_fcc/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;5 Best Creative Thinking Techniques to help your business thrive&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Barbara,</p>
<p>nice post about law of attraction and importance of focus. It works in my life, the great thing is that since I have realized about the power of the right focus, I am more happy and have more time for the things I love, because I concentrate on them and see &#8220;glass half-full instead of half-empty&#8221; <img src='http://paintedgenerations.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Justyna<br />
<span class="cluv"> Justyna Bizdra´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/CreativeInternetMarketing/~3/rAnZBkN_fcc/" rel="nofollow">5 Best Creative Thinking Techniques to help your business thrive</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://paintedgenerations.com/blog/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Valerie Beeby</title>
		<link>http://paintedgenerations.com/blog/2010/03/we-live-where-our-focus-is/comment-page-1/#comment-10357</link>
		<dc:creator>Valerie Beeby</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Mar 2010 11:47:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://paintedgenerations.com/blog/?p=1382#comment-10357</guid>
		<description>Everyone seems to have taken your words having the meaning: focus on what matters to you.

Excellent advice, though at first that seems at odds with living fully, since by definition, focusing on one thing is cutting out the rest. 

To avoid over-focusing, I have found a mental trick though that works very well. Here it is for what it&#039;s worth. I don&#039;t know much about Zen or meditation techniques (though I have in my time gained several diplomas in rather dubious branches of hypnotherapy). Maybe this is what the Zen and TM people do? I just tell myself to open my awareness to everything around me. I try not to try! 

A metaphor comes to mind. &quot;Don&#039;t push the river.&quot;

I find the spotlight then falls automatically on what matters most to me. (I love it when it&#039;s my morning coffee!)
.-= Valerie Beeby´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://owler.com/-blog/2010/03/iphone-art-app-mixer-uninvited-guest/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;iPhone Art App Mixer, Uninvited Guest.&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Everyone seems to have taken your words having the meaning: focus on what matters to you.</p>
<p>Excellent advice, though at first that seems at odds with living fully, since by definition, focusing on one thing is cutting out the rest. </p>
<p>To avoid over-focusing, I have found a mental trick though that works very well. Here it is for what it&#8217;s worth. I don&#8217;t know much about Zen or meditation techniques (though I have in my time gained several diplomas in rather dubious branches of hypnotherapy). Maybe this is what the Zen and TM people do? I just tell myself to open my awareness to everything around me. I try not to try! </p>
<p>A metaphor comes to mind. &#8220;Don&#8217;t push the river.&#8221;</p>
<p>I find the spotlight then falls automatically on what matters most to me. (I love it when it&#8217;s my morning coffee!)<br />
<span class="cluv"> Valerie Beeby´s last blog ..<a href="http://owler.com/-blog/2010/03/iphone-art-app-mixer-uninvited-guest/" rel="nofollow">iPhone Art App Mixer, Uninvited Guest.</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://paintedgenerations.com/blog/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Lisa</title>
		<link>http://paintedgenerations.com/blog/2010/03/we-live-where-our-focus-is/comment-page-1/#comment-10346</link>
		<dc:creator>Lisa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Mar 2010 18:57:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://paintedgenerations.com/blog/?p=1382#comment-10346</guid>
		<description>Hi Barb! This is a wonderful topic that seems to elude me most times. Not to say I don&#039;t have places or people that are near and dear to my heart, I simply have a hard time focusing on any one thing for too long. No, haven&#039;t been diagnosed with  anything :) Just have so much I want to do since I&#039;ve wasted much time focusing on too much drivel during past decades.

As I begin venturing into my creative side, I hope to gain a more purposeful focus that becomes clear and pointed soon. I truly believe if we follow our own heart&#039;s desires that we find true happiness. And I&#039;ve never been happier than what I&#039;ve been doing thus far this year!

PS: did you get the link to cj.com and find Starbuck&#039;s?
.-= Lisa´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://lisa-griffiths.com/someplace-else/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Someplace Else&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Barb! This is a wonderful topic that seems to elude me most times. Not to say I don&#8217;t have places or people that are near and dear to my heart, I simply have a hard time focusing on any one thing for too long. No, haven&#8217;t been diagnosed with  anything <img src='http://paintedgenerations.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  Just have so much I want to do since I&#8217;ve wasted much time focusing on too much drivel during past decades.</p>
<p>As I begin venturing into my creative side, I hope to gain a more purposeful focus that becomes clear and pointed soon. I truly believe if we follow our own heart&#8217;s desires that we find true happiness. And I&#8217;ve never been happier than what I&#8217;ve been doing thus far this year!</p>
<p>PS: did you get the link to cj.com and find Starbuck&#8217;s?<br />
<span class="cluv"> Lisa´s last blog ..<a href="http://lisa-griffiths.com/someplace-else/" rel="nofollow">Someplace Else</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://paintedgenerations.com/blog/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Barbara Hartsook</title>
		<link>http://paintedgenerations.com/blog/2010/03/we-live-where-our-focus-is/comment-page-1/#comment-10338</link>
		<dc:creator>Barbara Hartsook</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2010 23:45:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://paintedgenerations.com/blog/?p=1382#comment-10338</guid>
		<description>Hi Baker. You wrote &#039;We become what we think and do.&#039; I agree completely! It takes thought and action both to get where we want to go, and to become who we are meant to become. Thanks so much for coming by. I&#039;ll return your visit and see what it is you love to write about. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Baker. You wrote &#8216;We become what we think and do.&#8217; I agree completely! It takes thought and action both to get where we want to go, and to become who we are meant to become. Thanks so much for coming by. I&#8217;ll return your visit and see what it is you love to write about. <img src='http://paintedgenerations.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
</channel>
</rss>

