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		<title>Comment on We Live Where Our Focus Is by Sliloh</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sliloh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Mar 2010 16:11:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think I must live in my computer then :) Wonderful post Barb and those place cards are beautiful!

Anita
.-= Sliloh´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.sliloh.com/blog/musings/the-universe/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The Universe&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think I must live in my computer then <img src='http://paintedgenerations.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  Wonderful post Barb and those place cards are beautiful!</p>
<p>Anita<br />
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		<title>Comment on We Live Where Our Focus Is by Elizabeth Roth</title>
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		<dc:creator>Elizabeth Roth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Mar 2010 14:47:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Barb, Sunday mornings (we attend mass Sat. pm) are all ours.  I permit myself no work from the office, no errands at all if possible, just throw in a load of laundry, fix a nice breakfast or brunch for us, read, putter, and hug lots.  This morning it was so nice to sit with my cup of coffee and think or rethink a favorite scripture, the one on this site, and your thoughts about it.  
I love the part in your letter about: live in the process of becoming.  That says it all, but there is even more, perhaps in that by our &quot;becoming&quot; we influence others&#039; &quot;becomings&quot; ---does that make sense?  Sometimes what we forget is that by being honest about our ourselves, by revealing our searches, by falling and then getting back up through God&#039;s grace, we are assisting unbeknowns our loved ones and even just those who watch from afar.
You are a good example of a light that shines with far-reaching rays into the hearts of many.  
Have a wonderful Sunday, Barb.  You are a true blessing to us all.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Barb, Sunday mornings (we attend mass Sat. pm) are all ours.  I permit myself no work from the office, no errands at all if possible, just throw in a load of laundry, fix a nice breakfast or brunch for us, read, putter, and hug lots.  This morning it was so nice to sit with my cup of coffee and think or rethink a favorite scripture, the one on this site, and your thoughts about it.<br />
I love the part in your letter about: live in the process of becoming.  That says it all, but there is even more, perhaps in that by our &#8220;becoming&#8221; we influence others&#8217; &#8220;becomings&#8221; &#8212;does that make sense?  Sometimes what we forget is that by being honest about our ourselves, by revealing our searches, by falling and then getting back up through God&#8217;s grace, we are assisting unbeknowns our loved ones and even just those who watch from afar.<br />
You are a good example of a light that shines with far-reaching rays into the hearts of many.<br />
Have a wonderful Sunday, Barb.  You are a true blessing to us all.</p>
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		<title>Comment on We Live Where Our Focus Is by Suzie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Suzie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Mar 2010 15:40:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ah, what a refreshing article Barb.  It&#039;s truly the adventure in the process that makes life worth living, and we remember them much more than the finish I think.  I love mulling over coffee with you.  Have a great day.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ah, what a refreshing article Barb.  It&#8217;s truly the adventure in the process that makes life worth living, and we remember them much more than the finish I think.  I love mulling over coffee with you.  Have a great day.<br />
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		<title>Comment on We Live Where Our Focus Is by Hilary</title>
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		<dc:creator>Hilary</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Mar 2010 15:34:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Barbara .. I love that word &#039;focus&#039; .. we need to do it more often - and bring forth all our greatness - our spirit, our passion, our abilities, our kindnesses .. focusing on others and ourselves as we go.

Regardless of life - we will overcome because we are all that we need and things will come right, and we will move on from the negatives and difficulties .. time does heal for those with troubles or obstacles .. being happy as we go - enlightening others ..

Your table cards are beautiful ..  and your love for your family fantabulous .. Hilary
.-= Hilary´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://positiveletters.blogspot.com/2010/03/women-how-much-education-have-women-had.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Women - how much education have women had in the past 2,000 years?&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Barbara .. I love that word &#8216;focus&#8217; .. we need to do it more often &#8211; and bring forth all our greatness &#8211; our spirit, our passion, our abilities, our kindnesses .. focusing on others and ourselves as we go.</p>
<p>Regardless of life &#8211; we will overcome because we are all that we need and things will come right, and we will move on from the negatives and difficulties .. time does heal for those with troubles or obstacles .. being happy as we go &#8211; enlightening others ..</p>
<p>Your table cards are beautiful ..  and your love for your family fantabulous .. Hilary<br />
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		<title>Comment on We Live Where Our Focus Is by Lori Woodward</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lori Woodward</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Mar 2010 11:23:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good morning Barbara,

Thank you for this meaningful post. Accepting what gifts we&#039;ve been given and making the most of them leads to happiness. Of course, I&#039;m in the same boat as you when it comes to doing this perfectly. I have to work at it all the time.

It seems that a lot of women have waited until later in life to begin their artistic careers - which is a fact of life, and as you say - family is your #1 treasure (as it should be). I like to say that people are more important than paintings. On the other hand, I&#039;ve seen artists, like Kathy Anderson take on art in her late 50&#039;s and move on to excellence and success in a short time. She&#039;s 64, and is getting known on a national level. She wasn&#039;t particularly gifted to begin with, she&#039;s had many more rejections than awards, but she plugs on and collectors love her work. She was one of the only artists at the recent Settler&#039;s West Miniature Show in Tucson to sell both of her works - and to important collectors.

Kathy is my hero. If she can do it, so can we. Here&#039;s to your success, joy and happiness in your endeavors Barbara.
Lori</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good morning Barbara,</p>
<p>Thank you for this meaningful post. Accepting what gifts we&#8217;ve been given and making the most of them leads to happiness. Of course, I&#8217;m in the same boat as you when it comes to doing this perfectly. I have to work at it all the time.</p>
<p>It seems that a lot of women have waited until later in life to begin their artistic careers &#8211; which is a fact of life, and as you say &#8211; family is your #1 treasure (as it should be). I like to say that people are more important than paintings. On the other hand, I&#8217;ve seen artists, like Kathy Anderson take on art in her late 50&#8217;s and move on to excellence and success in a short time. She&#8217;s 64, and is getting known on a national level. She wasn&#8217;t particularly gifted to begin with, she&#8217;s had many more rejections than awards, but she plugs on and collectors love her work. She was one of the only artists at the recent Settler&#8217;s West Miniature Show in Tucson to sell both of her works &#8211; and to important collectors.</p>
<p>Kathy is my hero. If she can do it, so can we. Here&#8217;s to your success, joy and happiness in your endeavors Barbara.<br />
Lori</p>
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		<title>Comment on We Live Where Our Focus Is by Davina</title>
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		<dc:creator>Davina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2010 23:18:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>And if you focus on your really good cup of coffee it will be &quot;good to the last drop&quot;. Ever do that? Make a cup of coffee and sip it while working, not really tasting it or finishing it for that matter? You end up with half a cup of cold coffee and the other half you barely remember tasting. This is a super post Barb! Focus is so important. Sounds simple, but we are SO easily distracted. 

A friend emailed me today to say she&#039;d had a realization about her career and how she&#039;d been living in a fog lately. Living in the fog actually helped her to &quot;see&quot;. She HAD to stop and turn on the light to see her way through. She chose to focus. And this is a great metaphor for what you&#039;ve just written about.
.-= Davina´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ShadesOfCrimson/~3/pUWdt78G1AY/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;A Sacred Space Is Not Always Sunny&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>And if you focus on your really good cup of coffee it will be &#8220;good to the last drop&#8221;. Ever do that? Make a cup of coffee and sip it while working, not really tasting it or finishing it for that matter? You end up with half a cup of cold coffee and the other half you barely remember tasting. This is a super post Barb! Focus is so important. Sounds simple, but we are SO easily distracted. </p>
<p>A friend emailed me today to say she&#8217;d had a realization about her career and how she&#8217;d been living in a fog lately. Living in the fog actually helped her to &#8220;see&#8221;. She HAD to stop and turn on the light to see her way through. She chose to focus. And this is a great metaphor for what you&#8217;ve just written about.<br />
<span class="cluv"> Davina´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ShadesOfCrimson/~3/pUWdt78G1AY/" rel="nofollow">A Sacred Space Is Not Always Sunny</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://paintedgenerations.com/blog/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>Comment on Learning Changes Us&#8230; or Does It? by Katie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Katie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Mar 2010 22:30:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello Barb:  
I&#039;ve just been introduced to your blog, as we are taking an LVS online class together.  As many of the comments have been geared towards, I feel the problem is, that were all in a warm bed.  There are very few people who are willing to take the chance or leap to challenge themselves into doing new things.  I have also been to motivational seminars and like most, you leave feeling wonderful, happy, in awe.  The challenge is to react on those feelings and change in your daily life, what you came out of the seminar with.  Some of it is fear, fear of failure, even if it is just to yourself.  What if I do this and it doesn&#039;t work, or I don&#039;t feel better, or no one notices?    Getting back to being in a warm bed.....people are comfortable with whom they have become, it works for them so why change it.
Look forward to chatting in class with you.
Katie</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello Barb:<br />
I&#8217;ve just been introduced to your blog, as we are taking an LVS online class together.  As many of the comments have been geared towards, I feel the problem is, that were all in a warm bed.  There are very few people who are willing to take the chance or leap to challenge themselves into doing new things.  I have also been to motivational seminars and like most, you leave feeling wonderful, happy, in awe.  The challenge is to react on those feelings and change in your daily life, what you came out of the seminar with.  Some of it is fear, fear of failure, even if it is just to yourself.  What if I do this and it doesn&#8217;t work, or I don&#8217;t feel better, or no one notices?    Getting back to being in a warm bed&#8230;..people are comfortable with whom they have become, it works for them so why change it.<br />
Look forward to chatting in class with you.<br />
Katie</p>
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		<title>Comment on Learning Changes Us&#8230; or Does It? by Grandma Kc</title>
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		<dc:creator>Grandma Kc</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 20:08:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Barb,

This was very thought provoking.  At the end of each year I find myself becoming very introspective, it usually ends up bringing me down and making me wonder how it is I have managed to waste so many years. I finally figured out that I had spent the last few years trying to learn to much - not to much but about to many different things. I was just spreading myself to thin and not getting anywhere. So this year I have made some very definite plans and I am implementing what I learn. I have focus. Thanks for keeping me on track! Kc
.-= Grandma Kc´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://amaraland.com/memories/last-plane-out/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Last Plane Out&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Barb,</p>
<p>This was very thought provoking.  At the end of each year I find myself becoming very introspective, it usually ends up bringing me down and making me wonder how it is I have managed to waste so many years. I finally figured out that I had spent the last few years trying to learn to much &#8211; not to much but about to many different things. I was just spreading myself to thin and not getting anywhere. So this year I have made some very definite plans and I am implementing what I learn. I have focus. Thanks for keeping me on track! Kc<br />
<span class="cluv"> Grandma Kc´s last blog ..<a href="http://amaraland.com/memories/last-plane-out/" rel="nofollow">Last Plane Out</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://paintedgenerations.com/blog/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>Comment on Learning Changes Us&#8230; or Does It? by Phil - Less Ordinary Living</title>
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		<dc:creator>Phil - Less Ordinary Living</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Mar 2010 11:43:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Barb -

Thanks for bringing out a fundamental truth.  Learning isn&#039;t purely the act of finding and taking in information.  Information only becomes useful once it is applied.  It takes experimentation and practice to make a change and be better.  As a coach, I spend my life trying out ideas and sticking with them to see how they impact my life.  I love finding the learning in a different way of approaching something.  When things work, I encourage my clients to try them too.  This always means a concerted effort at trying something over a period of time, reviewing the change, analyzing, correcting and then working out what next.  Living this way is an adventure and a joy.  Keep spreading the word!

Phil
.-= Phil - Less Ordinary Living´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/LessOrdinaryLiving/~3/hqKmdKUIdzc/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;How to Start&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Barb -</p>
<p>Thanks for bringing out a fundamental truth.  Learning isn&#8217;t purely the act of finding and taking in information.  Information only becomes useful once it is applied.  It takes experimentation and practice to make a change and be better.  As a coach, I spend my life trying out ideas and sticking with them to see how they impact my life.  I love finding the learning in a different way of approaching something.  When things work, I encourage my clients to try them too.  This always means a concerted effort at trying something over a period of time, reviewing the change, analyzing, correcting and then working out what next.  Living this way is an adventure and a joy.  Keep spreading the word!</p>
<p>Phil<br />
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		<title>Comment on The Lyf so Short; the Craft so Long to Lerne by Lyn</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lyn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Mar 2010 02:08:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>How beautiful and how true.  We are each a blank canvas or a piano alone in a room, until we take the time to open ourselves up to our own visions and our own music.  Thank you, Barbara Hartsook.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How beautiful and how true.  We are each a blank canvas or a piano alone in a room, until we take the time to open ourselves up to our own visions and our own music.  Thank you, Barbara Hartsook.</p>
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