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How Do You Handle Hurtful Remarks?

by Barbara Hartsook on January 12, 2010 · 19 comments

It’s universal you know… thinking whatever offensive, hurtful remark gets thrown at us is because of us. It isn’t always…
Liz Strauss says to distance ourselves from the event. Her points are excellent — think, think, realize, decide, and think some more. Read the point specifics on her blog…
I’d add this: Realize the offensive comment is [...]

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How Do You Play (Work) Life?

by Barbara Hartsook on April 3, 2009 · 12 comments

I’ve found a new blog, Sources of Insight, written by J.D. Meier. This morning he asked what our metaphors for life are. How do we approach it, work with it? Within what context?
How do I play life?
You think that’s easy to answer? It wasn’t for me…
…Not until I poured a fresh cup of coffee and [...]

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It has been my goal for a while to be named one of Liz Strauss’ Successful and Outstanding Bloggers, to be honored with an “S&OB” display badge.
That goal was realized this past week. Thank you, Liz.
I first found Liz’ blog through Bean Fairbanks, my blogging-studio mentor at LVSonline. Bean suggested when I got a bit [...]

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To Be Visibly Authentic, Let Go the Status Quo

by Barbara Hartsook on March 12, 2009 · 12 comments

Yesterday Liz Strauss, in a step toward visible authenticity, threw away some stuff. She wrote:

Old habits stay with us longer than we need them.
Old thoughts that once protected  fence us in…
Being too safe can be risky.
Knowing too much can get in the way of learning…
… I had to throw away the old jeans to understand [...]

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How Does Someone Connect With What I Say? Or Write? Or Paint?
I’m learning how to use less detail in areas of my portraits outside a small focal area.
I’m learning to look at things straight-on and, while not moving my eyes, think about how I see the periphery. Certainly it’s not detailed. Important to the overall [...]

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Does our Imagination Inspire Us to Act?

by Barbara Hartsook on February 16, 2009 · 13 comments

“We all live best in our own imaginations.” I read that this morning in a novel.
I wondered how often I live there — in my imagination. While I’m driving, or in the shower, or out on the exercise trail. And is it a good thing?

I imagine brilliant conversations with others — in my mind, by [...]

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Why Do You Read Blogs?

by Barbara Hartsook on November 15, 2008 · 10 comments

Why would anyone come to read my blog Over Coffee? Or any blog for that matter?
The question was the first in my blogging class homework assignment, and it has kept me wondering for the past two weeks. Why indeed?
Why read my blog? For the same reasons I read those similar to mine, I suppose. I [...]

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The Beginning of Fall… Painter X Tutorial

by Barbara Hartsook on October 11, 2008 · 8 comments

It smells like the beginning of fall — you know, that smell of half-summer, half fall. Oh, I can’t explain it… but it’s nice.  It smells like something new is coming…

So said my twenty-year-old granddaughter Lyssa, as she opened the door to the morning on the way to her college classes for the day. [...]

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My best people paintings come from photos that suggest a story to me. Nothing spectacular. Usually not posed, and with no special lighting. Even photos taken on a grey day with little color can tell a story so poignant it begs to be painted.
I found such a photo two years ago among my daughter’s snap [...]

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Bold Ideas and Solutions Come with Time

by Barbara Hartsook on October 1, 2008 · 8 comments

My friend The Purple Owl says:
Getting creative ideas is not something you do.
It’s something you allow to happen.
My best ideas for solutions often come with time; they rarely present themselves immediately.
For instance, in Chris Price’s Painter Lab at the Digital Art Academy, the first week’s assignment this fall was to paint bold.
What is my [...]

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